The Very Well Group

Hypnotherapy and Coaching

Welcome to The Very Well Group

You may not realise the full extent of your powers. I am sure that if we combine our resources you have what it takes to feel better, be more confident and much more able to lead your life in the way you want.

I am Meredith Vivian, Director of The Very Well Group. I offer hypnotherapy and coaching in the Church Stretton area.

I also deliver highly-acclaimed presentation-skills training to individuals and groups across Shropshire.

If you decide that now is the right time for us to work together you will get my absolute attention, interest and care. I will be completely on your side and will do my utmost to help you achieve your goals.

I’d love to see you reach your full potential – may I help you get there?

Qualifications

  • BSc (Hons) Psychology
  • Certificate in Counselling
  • C.Hyp
  • D.Hyp
  • Hypnotherapy Practitioners Diploma (HPD)
  • NLP Practitioner
    I trained as a hypnotherapist at the highly regarded Surrey Institute of Clinical Hypnotherapy.

I was awarded an OBE in 2006 for services to patients and the public.

My Approach

Over the years I have developed a range of skills that can empower you – through counselling, coaching and hypnotherapy – and by combining these with my belief in everyone’s innate potential I can help you become the person you want to be.

You will always be in charge of our sessions – I’m here to listen to you and to what you want. You shall have every opportunity to explore your thoughts, feelings and behaviours so that you can decide what you want to change about your life and how you’d like to do it.

Build confidence and self esteem
Tackle your phobias and anxieties
Fix your sleep problems
Manage your pain, physical & emotional
Lose weight
Give up smoking
Enjoy interviews and presentations
Hypnotherapy and cancer

You’re Not Alone. And I’m Here to Help!

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Find out what clients are saying

I have attended Meredith’s practice for some help with a couple of issues. Primarily I wanted help to achieve my goal of living more healthily (and thereby losing weight ) and secondly to help me prioritise and set goals to look after myself better. These two objectives go hand in hand but I needed guidance from Meredith to talk through things, and with prompting from him, was able to address the poor eating habits and quickly put into place a healthier way of thinking about food and exercise. I lost 19 kilos which is great and now feel so much healthier. I walk and exercise so much more now than I have ever done before and I feel much happier. I have tried dieting before, attending Weight Watchers and Slimming World meetings but found each time that I became obsessed with recipes and food and that the recipes did not really  work very well with family life. Talking to Meredith has resulted in a big life style shift of emphasis and I really feel much better and no longer fixated on calories counting. For me, hypnotherapy has really helped me achieve my goals and I’m very grateful to Meredith for his skill and expertise

JS

Driving to my 1st appointment with Meredith I was anxious and fearful. I doubted anyone could help me, but, I knew I had to try. Within minutes of meeting Meredith he made me feel at ease, I felt safe. On our 2nd appointment I knew Meredith totally “got me”. He is professional and highly skilled but also compassionate and very kind. Meredith helped me to like myself again, to find joy and happiness. I thoroughly recommend Meredith, he is simply the BEST.

CF

Frequently Asked Questions

Learn How it Works!

What is hypnotherapy?

For well over a hundred years hypnotherapy has been recognised by the medical profession as being an effective therapy for dealing with a wide range of conditions, phobias, anxieties, negative thoughts and unwanted habits.

The body which accredited my training – National Council for Hypnotherapy – provides a helpful definition of hypnotherapy:

HYPNOTHERAPY is the application of hypnotic techniques in such a way as to bring about therapeutic changes. An external influence – the Therapist – assists in activating the inner resources of a person – the Client – in order to achieve realistic goals.

The problems that HYPNOTHERAPY is best placed to help fall into the following broad classes:

Thoughts and ideas

People can suffer from thoughts of low self-esteem, or obsessive thoughts about someone or something. They may not be able, for example, to get out of their minds the idea that they are suffering from an illness, despite medical reassurance, or that a partner is unfaithful. HYPNOTHERAPY can help the client to change such ideas.

Phobias

People often experience an irrational fear of a variety of insects, animals, objects or situations and HYPNOTHERAPY is particularly renowned for its effectiveness in assisting sufferers to overcome these distressing and inhibiting conditions.

Feelings

People can suffer from a wide variety of distressing feelings such as panic attacks, anxiety, jealousy, guilt, anger or inadequacy. Whatever the problem feeling, HYPNOTHERAPY can deal with it more specifically than can a drug – and without harmful side effects.

Habits

People can find themselves in the grip of many habits that they seem unable to control, from something like nail-biting or smoking to more deep-seated compulsions.
HYPNOTHERAPY, using hypnotic techniques, can help to remove habits with precision and again, a total freedom from side effects.

There is a wide variety of issues and conditions which are generally accepted as being helped by hypnotherapy – here are the most common:

  • Smoking
  • Weight control
  • Nail biting
  • Enuresis
  • Stress
  • Anxiety
  • Irritable bowel syndrome (IBS)
  • Sexual problems
  • Sporting performance
  • Nerves (exams, tests etc.)
  • Confidence
  • Self-esteem
  • Gambling
  • Sleep problems
  • Public speaking
  • Letting Go
  • Panic attacks
  • Phobias
  • Headaches
  • Flying
 
What does it feel like to be hypnotised?

Everyone is different and report different reactions. However, generally clients tell me that they feel:

‘A feeling of absolute relaxation’

‘Very very lazy, awake but not really’

‘It’s like being asleep but still awake’

‘Beforehand I thought I was going to disappear somewhere as if I’d been put in a spell … it was nothing like that. It was much more along the lines of an extended day dream’

‘I was awake all the time, I could hear everything, but I just didn’t want to think about anything or do anything’

‘I was extremely relaxed, just listening to a far-away voice’

‘I knew I could open my eyes if I wanted to, I just genuinely did not want to’

‘I became so still and lazy, it was like I was made of wax’

‘I was in a trance for about forty minutes but it felt like five’

‘It was really pleasurable – I’d recommend it’

There are two important messages I’d like you to note:

  • It’s nothing like you see in stage shows or on television – they are rather dubious forms of entertainment with a high degree of ‘showmanship’ at their heart;
  • You will enjoy the experience, it’s relaxing, peaceful and a chance for you to unwind and recharge your batteries.
Will I go under?

The term ‘under’ is very unhelpful. There is no question of going ‘under’. The term suggests that you will be ‘out of it’ or ‘out of control’. You will be aware of what is happening to you throughout the session, you will simply be so relaxed you won’t be bothered to do anything other than enjoy the peace, calm and tranquillity of the experience.

You will certainly not be ‘under’ my control – you will be quite able to terminate the session at any point you like – and if you want to end it I’d rather you did.

Will I be able to drive afterwards?

Absolutely yes. If anything, you will be energised by the experience.

Is hypnotherapy accepted as a legitimate form of therapy by the medical profession?

​Hypnotherapy has been recognised as an effective form of therapy by the medical world for well over a hundred years. In 1892 the British Medical Association (BMA) commissioned a special committee of eleven doctors ‘to investigate the nature of the phenomenon of hypnotism, its value as a therapeutic agent, and the propriety of using it’.

The committee’s report was received and published by the BMA, opening with a clear recognition of the phenomenon of hypnotic trance:

‘The Committee, having completed such investigation of hypnotism as time permitted, have to report that they have satisfied themselves of the genuineness of the hypnotic state.’ (BMA, 1892).

In 1955 a further sub-committee of the BMA reported … ‘The Subcommittee is satisfied after consideration of the available evidence that hypnotism is of value and may be the treatment of choice in some cases of so-called psycho-somatic disorder and psychoneurosis. It may also be of value for revealing unrecognised motives and conflicts in such conditions. As a treatment, in the opinion of the Subcommittee it has proved its ability to remove symptoms and to alter morbid habits of thought and behaviour.’

Clinical hypnotherapy is generally regarded as an effective and cost-effective complementary therapy by doctors and commissioners of health services throughout the UK. Many GPs will refer their patients to hypnotherapists to complement the treatment they are offering or as an alternative when their own prescribed treatment has not worked.

Will I lose control?

Absolutely not! You will stay in control throughout the whole process.

You will, however, be happy to just relax and enjoy the experience – the notion of control will not even occur to you.

Can hypnotherapy help everyone?

Not everyone is helped by hypnotherapy, just as no medicine or drug is a universal cure.

The important issue to remember is that hypnotherapy will be at its most effective if you the client are open to its effectiveness, are ready to put in a real effort to make changes to your life, and, you and I are ready to work as a team to get what you want – and we will be, I’m sure.

Can everyone be hypnotised?

Everyone can be hypnotised. Not everyone can be hypnotised by the same person.

The successful induction of a trance state depends on the rapport built up between the therapist and the client.

How will I know if it has worked?

Hypnotherapy is not magic. Its highly unlikely that you will suddenly feel completely different.

After a session you will go about your life and I would expect you to notice subtle changes, perhaps with more confidence, or without the usual anxiety, compulsion or undermining beliefs.

Over a series of sessions you will know for sure that you have changed – that you are much more happy with yourself and your life.

Can I have my money back if it doesn’t work?

I don’t offer guarantees. I am sure that hypnotherapy works and I am very confident that we can address your issues and make the changes you want.

I am certain that if we put our energies and commitment to make a difference together you are even more likely to get the results you want.

Contact Me!

I consult with individual clients in Church Stretton, Shropshire

Mobile
0779 434 8199
Email Address
Meredith.Vivian@theverywellgroup.com
Call Me
01694 720 369